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Is "call-out culture" a problem?

You can Google call-out culture if you don't know about the term. It's pretty self-explanatory though.
It seems we are less likely to look for a solution to a problem than we are to publicly call out the ones causing the problem, or the ones we disagree with.
There's nothing wrong with bringing things to light, which is how this started. It has gotten out of hand though. For most, it seems to be about attention now. They don't truly care about the issue.
Example: Someone gets frustrated, looks up and says, "Kill me now."
Then someone yells out something like, "Are you making light of suicide?!" (True story btw)
When really, you could just go up to that person and say, just to them, something like "I get that you probably didn't mean it this way, but what you said was pretty insensitive"
That doesn't get you any credit from your peers though. No attention. It just makes you a decent person. Where's the fun in that?
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Olivine · 31-35
Yeah, I think it's a problem. The way I see it, if you have an issue with someone you tell them in private to save them face. This way they don't get defensive and you can have a productive conversation instead of embarrassing them and making a scene, which makes them less likely to actually take what you said to heart.

A truly decent person doesn't stand up for what's right for the attention, they do it because it's what's right, even if no one else sees.
SW-User
@Olivine Exactly. They see others as the enemy. You don't just chat with your enemies. You attack them.
A community cannot work against itself like that though