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Trying to tell if he's into me at all...help

Theres a guy that I work with, he's 10 years older than me but I’m definitely attracted to him. I feel like I can read that slight vibe from him too but not sure.. whenever he see’s me he always will say something like “here comes trouble” or “thanks troublemaker” ... we tend to make eye contact a lot(I guess stare) and i jokingly ask him if he has a problem... but he’ll go out of his way to mess with me; or say “mean” things definitely have caught him checking me out like twice... I’m pretty distant from him because i don't want to give away that i kinda like him... and i don't think he can tell honestly, but he jokes around with everyone... and tonight he asked if i needed help putting my necklace back on and he did that for me so 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

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Keaten · 31-35, M

Look at how he acts around you compared to everyone else. If he seems more close to you then that is definitely a sign that he is into you.

Jordayray · 26-30, F

Im so oblivious that i cant tell... and ive been trying to@Keaten

Keaten · 31-35, M

@Jordayray See if he helps everyone else put on a necklace or intimate things like that. Look at how close he is to everyone else versus how he is with you. Trust me, there is a sign.

Jordayray · 26-30, F

Idk if helping someone put on a necklace is intimate though@Keaten

Keaten · 31-35, M

@Jordayray Perhaps not but it does suggest a closeness. You could set it up by saying you were thinking about going to check out a movie or something but you don't have anyone to go with. How he responds should let you know and you're nit really asking anything of him but just putting it out there that you are free.

Jordayray · 26-30, F

Lol yeah we were obviously really close.... couldn't bring myself to look at him while he was fixing it. He does notice stuff about me too, but just obvious stuff@Keaten

Keaten · 31-35, M

@Jordayray What may seem obvious to you may not seem obvious to every one else. You and him could be closer than you think.