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hami1091 · 41-45, F
Yes and yes
Guy1195 · 26-30, M
How and why?
hami1091 · 41-45, F
@Guy1195: Growing up I helped to lie on my friend A's twin sister Heather a lot, and the result would be their dad would beat her he was really abusive and a tyrant to Heather. I did it because A was/is my best friend and it was her favorite game to play "Lie on Heather" And yes I felt guilty afterward. And yes it was intentional because I knew what would happen, and did it anyway.
Guy1195 · 26-30, M
I think that's pretty horrible.
hami1091 · 41-45, F
@Guy1195: I agree it was.
Guy1195 · 26-30, M
Do you know where Heather is now and if she is okay?
hami1091 · 41-45, F
@Guy1195: Sadly she passed away in Feb 2014 from Kidney failure, before she died we were very close friends and I miss her dearly.
Guy1195 · 26-30, M
Do you think the beatings had an impact on her life that may have lead to her death?
hami1091 · 41-45, F
@Guy1195: No the beatings didn't lead to her death, but I'm positive they impacted her life, even if it was in how she raised her own children nothing like he did and never so much as laid a hand on them to hurt them.........but she looked up to him and thought him a hero so in a lot of ways I don't think she saw the actual impact it had on her life.
Guy1195 · 26-30, M
Hmm.