May be I didn't have good relation with males since it started with my father

My father always used to take loan from everybody, it was his hobby or necessity but he used to take alot and alot of loans from so many people. Later my sister and I started to earn money ourselves and we decided to enroll our brother in the best college of our city to make his future. I did all the initial payment since I had money that time but it was not enough so I requested my father to manage that little money and he agreed. He managed that money and I knew that he got that money by keeping the gold jewelry of my mom which I brought for my mom with my saving before. Later on I collected money to withdraw those golds from bank since I want my mom to wear those jewelry so I gave money to my father and asked him to withdraw those jewelry. Instead of withdrawing all the jewelry from bank, he only withdraw little jewelry and gave me the empty box of jewelry telling there are all the jewelry inside that box. I saw that box and it was empty. I was so pissed that I cried so much. I did so much, I paid for my brother fee and even collected money to withdraw my moms's jewelry which I had brought myself and what I get, the empty box. Even my own father tried to fraud me then what to expect from other.