do same sex parents sound better to you then the normal ones?

When I was little I needed my parents and I was relatively certain they loved me. As I grew things changed. Now that I am grown I realize I am better off without them and I am not sure that they ever knew how to really love me. Such was the plight of being an unapologetic-ally gay son with narrow minded straight parents. I suppose they tried but how insulting is that? Why should someone have to try to do what should just come naturally. Looking back i think it might have been a much freer and less judgmental environment to have grown up in, having same sex parents.