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Does any ladies here feel this way when having a lover?

Like I get it when a we find a special someone and that special someone wants to spoil all his love. But I feel so bad if he pays for me all the TIME including little stuff like a Dollar thing. I'm not complaining by the way I'm just saying I feel guilty that he's doing it too much.

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Tonirs · 56-60, T

If he wants to then let him. And you buy him stuff in return. That's what I would do. I'll never argue with anyone who wants to pay for stuff for me but I try and buy stuff for them too.
I'm a mature student so I don't have much money but I do try and show how appreciative I am when he pays for things. . In today's climate it is seen as wrong to let a guy pay for you. But if he wants to why is it a problem?

SilentShadowx01 · 31-35, F

@Tonirs Not a problem, I just feel guilty if I can't pay for my dollar things. And I want to show him I appreciate him paying for me too.

Tonirs · 56-60, T

@SilentShadowx01 I understand that. And I wasn't saying that you have a problem with it lol. Some people do and they think it's wrong,
Maybe one way you can pay is if you adopt my way of thinking. If you invite him out for a coffee or a meal then you pay for it. I've always been brought up to think that way. Whoever invites you for a coffee they pay.
That way you won't feel so bad when he does treat you x