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At what age would you settle?

I mean, you probably have your own idea of what the perfect partner is for you right now, but at about what age or period of your life, you'd be like: "I can't be choosy no more, got to settle for what I get, so I wouldn't die alone and there wouldn't be anyone left to take care of my cats"?

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SW-User

I hope to never get to that point, it’s something I hate thinking about. Though I guess I would become less picky if I’m around 30 yo and single ? I know it will sound horrible for some people but I really want to make my own family 😳

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@SW-User Yeah, me too. I was surprised of how many people said categorically no.

SW-User

@Dan193 not everyone has the same goals in life. It’s okay, i completely understand their point of views too.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@SW-User Also I think that it's possible to learn to love people. It happened to me once. Like I wasn't that ecstatic about that person, but after being with them for a while, you tend to look past so many things, especially if they are generally a good person and friend.

SW-User

I guess the only thing where I would be less picky is on looks though. At the moment, I’m quite picky with whom I find attractive looking. @Dan193

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@SW-User I am similar. Although I would prefer to have cute babies. xD

SW-User

@Dan193 true, it would make their lives easier if they look good. It’s like a small privilege lol

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@SW-User haaha so you felt it and you want it the same for them?

SW-User

@Dan193 Felt it, no. I just see it around me. Just earlier this month, I had my boss saying he preferred pretty girls to work in his stores. He didn’t say it directly but it’s what he meant. That made me feel insecure asf 🤯

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@SW-User Well you do work for your boss, so it means that (s)he thinks you're pretty. You're good, nothing to worry about. 👌