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Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Willingly, July.
After much cajoling and abuse from my child's narcissist father, I caved in November and just 'got it over with' to shut him up. I equate to rape but our last therapist didn't.
After much cajoling and abuse from my child's narcissist father, I caved in November and just 'got it over with' to shut him up. I equate to rape but our last therapist didn't.
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Master1A · 70-79, M
@Starcrossed Sorry that you are involved with that kind of an ass. There is no reason for you to have to submit to him if you don't want to. I am assuming you are either divorced or weren't married and have separated . If he is using emotional force to get you to submit it is assault. Just say no and mean it..
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@Master1A contested divorcing, custody disagreement [I asked for 50/50, he wants sole]. We live together still. It's obviously a bad situation. I usually do say no. It wears one down. I'm aware it's assault. Marital rape / rape by coercion and or cajoling is a complex icky subject for too many people.
Master1A · 70-79, M
@Starcrossed Got it. Sorry for your situation, and hoping you can accomplish some resolution in the near future.