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I don’t know when?

A female is attracted to me?
I care but not enough I guess.

🤷🏽‍♂️ I don’t even know how to relationship correctly.

I just can’t maintain another person, love is for suckers.

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Peaceful · F

I'm last to know, too. It isn't lack of caring, it just isn't my priority, if that makes sense.

But when I'm involved, I'm deeply commited.

MellyMel22 · F

@Peaceful [i][c=#BF0080]Me too, but I go too deep and get stuck too long 😐[/c][/i]

Dateless · 31-35, M

I’m not, that’s the fastest way to get broken.

@Peaceful

Peaceful · F

@MellyMel22 I'm really cautious, now more than ever. Too many pretend to be something they aren't.

Peaceful · F

@Dateless I've been through so much shit, your head would spin. Being broken is a choice. 🤷‍♀️

Dateless · 31-35, M

Tag along, I could give you a run for your money. @Peaceful

Peaceful · F

@Dateless lmao! I'm not comparing or competing with your pain.

MellyMel22 · F

@Peaceful [i][c=#BF0080]I just have no interest anymore in that area, makes it easier to avoid 😄 [/c][/i]

Peaceful · F

@MellyMel22 and that's okay too. You may come across someone lovely that will change your mind. And if not, you are strong enough and fulfilled enough on your own that it really doesnt matter.

MellyMel22 · F

@Peaceful [i][c=#BF0080]Thanks.. It’s more complicated, but I know what you’re saying. My prob was two of those lovely people opened my eyes to reality, you can’t trust anyone- even those who stick around long 😑[/c][/i]

Peaceful · F

@MellyMel22 I respectfully disagree. You always trust your intuition. How many red flags have we missed in the past? Looking back, I see a bunch. The more I trust me? And stay level-headed? I can avoid the hurt. You can too. Just gotta trust you and the warnings more.

MellyMel22 · F

@Peaceful [i][c=#BF0080]That’s what ruined things, my gut feelings 😂 But those two were very different, I still don’t see flags I missed. But it never happened to me before. But I’m prepared to steer clear of that drama anyway 😌[/c][/i]

Peaceful · F

@MellyMel22 gut is different from the heart. It is like a muscle. Work with it and it strengthens.

MellyMel22 · F

@Peaceful [i][c=#BF0080]Oh I do, it’s usually right. But I like to see proof 🤭[/c][/i]

Peaceful · F

@MellyMel22 trust it enough and holy shit will you see proof. It has saved me so many times.

MellyMel22 · F

@Peaceful [i][c=#BF0080]It’s usually gone before I can see the proof 🥺[/c][/i]

Peaceful · F

@MellyMel22 you gotta work with it and learn to trust it. I promise you will see results. Do it with basic stuff. And build up to heart stuff.

MellyMel22 · F

@Peaceful [i][c=#BF0080]I’m really good with it, I just mean if I’m completely away from the person I don’t see things play out how I felt it would if that makes sense. I do see proof when I don’t follow my gut 😒😂 [/c][/i]