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Why Is Being Alone Made Out To Be So Awful?

You learn so much about yourself, and you're as free as you want to be..
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DeathAngelS300 · 26-30, F
It depends on the person.
Some people naturally crave others. Social interaction and friends often.
Some already knlw who they are so the time is just boring and lonely.

Also some people have had or are having bad things going on in their life and being alone just allows your mind to think about it more.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
Exactly
Or they are not looking at what's in front of them, if you really know yourself you can't be lonely. Can you?

Everyone has bad things happening in their lives..
DeathAngelS300 · 26-30, F
Yes you can. Just cause you possibly have took the time to lernt the deepest parts of yourself, yocrabe want to share all of that with another and learn them like yourself. A little thing I like to call love

Or even just friendship

And yeah.... Not everyone wants to sit arounf letting their mind dwell on the bad.
Some wanna keep themselves busy


And BTW, there's levels of bad...
I am not talking about holing up in your home for the rest of your life and never speaking to another soul. You are allowed to have as many friendships and relationships as you like.

We need to interact and connect with others. It is important. So you keep yourself busy..

Sure there are, but everyone has a right to feel their bad on whatever level it is on.. Doesn't mean it's any less bad just because we aren't having the worst happen to us.
DeathAngelS300 · 26-30, F
Oh I know I know. I was just saying why some do.
But some take all of it to a crazy level and never want to be alone cause of things I said effect them on a stronger level.

Which is why them may act like being alone is so awful cause for them maybe it is.

For me, I understand both being and not being alone.
I supposed if I had the choice, I'd have both.

And oh yes I know, I feel for others of course no matter the problem.
I was just saying, but in some situations you may not understand why someone thinks being alone is so awful and it might be their reason is a life problem on a dark deep level.
Yes, I understand your point of view as well. Everything goes both ways. All the time.. (:
I had a friend, who was a totally busy body and she LOVED it that way.
She was never alone.
The interactions with others FED her. They invigorated her.
Her profession was ideal = an ESL teacher.

I am, very different.
Though, I too, crave interaction.