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Why do people hate others who lose weight?

I'm trying so lose weight and two of my friends called me a traitor and the told me, "Big girls should stay together! Now you're trying to lose weight. Traitor! Don't lose weight. You don't wanna be a skinny slit." I was shocked when they say that. They won't talk to me now because I "betrayed" them. Wtf is wrong with people?! I am now 224lbs. I was 230lbs. I'm a large girl and 6'1. I got call a "Big Fat Pig" and "You need to lose weight" "Fatty". Man we can't ever win!

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PhlipipUK · 70-79, MVIP

Just ignore your so-called friends. They can carry on with growing their big fat asses (or arses if you live in the UK) and making themselves prime candidates for type 2 diabetes. You will be so much happier when you are at a sensible weight and able to wear all the lovely clothes that your 'friends' can't wear because they are too fat. Just look at yourself in the mirror and be honest with yourself. Worry you rather have a great big fat ass or would you like to look gorgeous?

I stopped smoking 17 years ago and put on loads of weight because I was eating too much and getting no exercise and I realised that I needed to sort myself out. I am still working on it, but I am getting there and I feel so good. Ignore the idiots, just do what you know is what you need to do for yourself.

xxx