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i have thought about this, having heard it from others and watched with my own eyes, the struggles of a female, with these experiences.
what I saw, was with Men of India, and also some Muslim lands. a desperation, for sexual contact, and a total ignorance of how to talk to women. This is NOT uncommon in the states with certain groups of men, but seems to be endemic among the men form thee places that we meet here. The cultural separation of men and women, tend to rob men of the kind of understanding, that makes for good interactions with women.
single biggest thing i tell fellows that ask about my ease with women, is
"get yourself some female friends, NOT with sexual intent or interest. just get more women in your life!"
but yeah, Pushy men are ever working against their best interests.
it often correlates, with environments where men often use power to overcome resistance
what I saw, was with Men of India, and also some Muslim lands. a desperation, for sexual contact, and a total ignorance of how to talk to women. This is NOT uncommon in the states with certain groups of men, but seems to be endemic among the men form thee places that we meet here. The cultural separation of men and women, tend to rob men of the kind of understanding, that makes for good interactions with women.
single biggest thing i tell fellows that ask about my ease with women, is
"get yourself some female friends, NOT with sexual intent or interest. just get more women in your life!"
but yeah, Pushy men are ever working against their best interests.
it often correlates, with environments where men often use power to overcome resistance