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How you know a kid is yours if you never met them before?

I was searching up my ex to see if she got kids. She got one boy an he got brown hair an the age is about right from when we were together an then broke up. But that could still be anyone kid not mine

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Mamapolo2016 · F

If you think there's a chance and you have any intention of stepping up as one of the two people responsible for his existence (that is a BIG deal, crimson)..,ask her to agree to a DNA test.

SW-User

@Mamapolo2016 I def think theres a chance

Mamapolo2016 · F

@SW-User If you're right, I hope you sit down sober and consider there is a human being on this planet because you fell in love or just got the hots.,Half of that boy belongs to you and is your responsibility. Not just financially, but spiritually and mentally and emotionally. It ought to weigh pretty heavy.

He's a human male. So were Jeffrey Dahmer and Abraham Lincoln and John Wayne. Who they turned out to be was in a great part dependent on how they were parented.

And consider the same thing the next time you get the hots.

SW-User

@Mamapolo2016 yeah all that true about the dahmer and Wayne an being half me. Only thing I wonder is if hes mine why was I never told

Mamapolo2016 · F

@SW-User She didn't know. She didn't care. She thought you wouldn't care. She was involved with someone else and didn't want to spoil it. Pick one.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@SW-User I'm curious. If you find he is yours, will you be glad or sad?

SW-User

@Mamapolo2016 not sure probably more stress cause I'm still job looking

Mamapolo2016 · F

@SW-User I understand that, but finances are far from the only concern, maybe not even the chief concern, because there's the welfare safety net.