Are you a good kisser?

@SW-User I'm not gay but you are a decent looking guy why don't you just meet a girl?

@Lostpoet ha ha ha. I am not gay either. Girls? They scare me. lol

@SW-User This is probably really bad advice, but have you tried using drugs and drinking just for one night of really high self confidence.

I know you played a lot of sports too as a kid. You know that pitcher could have beamed you with a fast ball anytime he wanted to, right? But you still stood up at the plate. (probably because you weren't thinking about being hit.) Girls don't want to hurt or embarrass you anymore then that pitcher, they're in it for the game too.

@Lostpoet ha ha ha. I love it what you said above. I don't play games. I don't believe in games. I never saw girls as games. That concept of compete to get attention sickens me. I am above that. Having said that, I was approached in my university time, a few time. But I was in a different world back than, chasing my dreams were more important back than. There was no place for a women. My approach towards women has change now. I don't think the way, I use too.

btw, I never did drugs of any sort. I am away from those too.

@SW-User That's a good response and you have the right mind set. I just thought something embarrassing happend to you as a kid that was preventing you from feeling good around women. If you just don't want to get stuck in that game because you saw its b.s from the start then good for you. And I'm glad you're not into or atracted to drugs or alcohol you sound like a very success driven person and the girl you end up with is going to be very lucky.

@LostpoetNo man. I failed due to recession in oil field which killed our jobs and I restarted from zero despite doing good at university. That's part of life and no worries as I am doing so much better. Thanks for your kind and sincere advice. I really appreciate that. Respect man :)