Do you control your partner or do they control you? If you don't have a partner which would you prefer to have?

@chrisCA well one partner can be dominant?

@popmol Sure, if that is what you both are into, and agree on.
I just have an issue of with someone controlling another person.

@chrisCA aah of course :)

@chrisCA its not like they control what you eat and when you eat it, its more like which one is the alpha?