If an SW user you knew well posted that they were in [insert name of your city] and they had nowhere to stay...
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SW-User
I'd block them.
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TJNewton · M
@SW-User Yes she has come on a lot since her early debut on here idk if she managed to recondition herself though 😂


SW-User
@TJNewton I thought that was you. I was wondering where you disappeared to.
TJNewton · M
@SW-User I had to change my friend i was going through a really bad time on here
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
give them a link to hotels.com
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@JarJarBoom brutal
TJNewton · M
@JarJarBoom Lolol 😂
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@CheshireCatalyst I'm nice, but not THAT nice to be like "ok, you can stay at my house"
Dusty101 · F
I've got a big huge sofa or a kitted out tree house with a bed they could use or a pull out bed in the playroom.
Or if they preferred.. I know the manager of my local hotel that would find a room for the night! 💚👍
I'm a fixer! 😁
Or if they preferred.. I know the manager of my local hotel that would find a room for the night! 💚👍
I'm a fixer! 😁


SW-User
Well if I knew them all that well I would have already known they were going to be in my city. But even if it was someone I didn't really talk to that much but knew "of" I'd reach out and see how I could help. It's doubtful I'd be inviting them to my house but I'd do my best to make sure they are safe.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@SW-User you're a good man


SW-User
@CheshireCatalyst Ehhh, mostly. There are a few that I would lead into the shittiest part of town.
Ynotjenn · F
Eh, if I thought I knew them well and they just suddenly "appeared" in my city? It's happened...and my "Stranger Danger" senses went off. I never responded to any messages until I knew they were gone.
That's how you get murdered.
😐
That's how you get murdered.
😐
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
Ynotjenn · F
Peaceful · F
I'd let them stay here. That's an easy one.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@Peaceful I know you would. You're caring to the core 🤗
Peaceful · F
@CheshireCatalyst thanks buddy! I'm sure you'd do the same! 🤗


SW-User
I can help them to make arrangements for boarding. Though it's rather strange to go somewhere without that sorted.
I am not comfortable bringing them to my residence.
I am not comfortable bringing them to my residence.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@SW-User because they'd see all your secret evil plans? 😈


SW-User
@CheshireCatalyst no. I live alone. And I prefer to remain safe.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@SW-User completely reasonable. X


SW-User
I’d talk to them and establish why, then offer suggestions.


SW-User
@CheshireCatalyst Is he going to hold a boom box up after falling in love with me in order to profess that I’m the woman of his dreams? 😍


SW-User
@SW-User To have for dessert after you cannibalise me?! 😱 *runs away*
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@SW-User I guess that depends on how he feels about the light, the heat in your eyes.
Groofydorkgerdo · 51-55, M
Offer them a place, we got a spare room.
They'd have to hurry, winter will soon be apoun us. My wife and I often open our home to others during the winter.
They'd have to hurry, winter will soon be apoun us. My wife and I often open our home to others during the winter.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@Groofydorkgerdo that's awesome. To anyone in particular?
Groofydorkgerdo · 51-55, M
@CheshireCatalyst Anyone.on the streets NOT just looking for a handout, people actually trying to better themselves.
Lol that kinda happened to me with a guy from EP but he didnt tell me he was coming he just showed up all the way from Indiana. I made him cry😬
KaysHealingPath · 31-35, F
@DarlingSelah oooo you made him cry?? How how how I want the details 🙃
@KaysHealingPath @CheshireCatalyst 😬😅 its a long story. I wasnt even talking to him anymore when he came to see me. So naturally I wasnt very nice about the situation.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@DarlingSelah you'd be justified in making him bleed. Making him cry sounds merciful.
Lol...we have plenty of hotels they can stay at. How’d they get here if they’re not able to afford somewhere to stay?
All of the people I speak to on here live pretty far and it’d be odd for them to come here without money they wouldn’t make it or a place to stay. Either way, they wouldn’t be able to stay here. I don’t know anyone on here that well enough to offer them a place to stay I’d have to get to know them a bit well in person first and even then I still live with my parents it’s not my home to give out. I also would hate to put my family at the risk of being in danger like that. Online interactions aren’t enough for me to be lending out my home.
All of the people I speak to on here live pretty far and it’d be odd for them to come here without money they wouldn’t make it or a place to stay. Either way, they wouldn’t be able to stay here. I don’t know anyone on here that well enough to offer them a place to stay I’d have to get to know them a bit well in person first and even then I still live with my parents it’s not my home to give out. I also would hate to put my family at the risk of being in danger like that. Online interactions aren’t enough for me to be lending out my home.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@Stark completely fair
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InOtterWords · F
I'm gonna come and visit you one day :) @kingkyri
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Iamjessie · M
Let them stay. I’m always at home by myself anyways. I like having company 😄
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@Iamjessie that's good of you
summersong · F
I’m happy to help with hotel suggestions but with very limited exceptions I’m not offering my home to anyone.
InOtterWords · F
I would make suggestions if where they could go
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@InOtterWords like...away? 🤣
InOtterWords · F
Yeah.....I hate house guests anyway, I find it really stressful. The only one I can manage for more than two days is a cousin from America.
Plus I need to sareguard my babies and what will I say to my husband. @CheshireCatalyst
Plus I need to sareguard my babies and what will I say to my husband. @CheshireCatalyst
EmilyMom · 51-55, F
@InOtterWords no question your living circumstance is a huge factor...i live alone but if i had small children i would probably have a differennt attitude
EmilyMom · 51-55, F
would meet them beforehand to make sure everything jibes with our (extensive)
coversations that we ve had and if they do i would probably offer
coversations that we ve had and if they do i would probably offer
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@EmilyMom good point. Public meeting first
KaysHealingPath · 31-35, F
I’d tell them places they could stay (hotels and etc)
KaysHealingPath · 31-35, F
@CheshireCatalyst I’m not sure yet
They put me on an oral drug but there is a 50% chance it won’t work.
He suggest we try this route first for 2 months and then get my labs redrawn and decide if I should stay on the oral drug (Carbegoline) or move to an injectible (Sandostatin)
They put me on an oral drug but there is a 50% chance it won’t work.
He suggest we try this route first for 2 months and then get my labs redrawn and decide if I should stay on the oral drug (Carbegoline) or move to an injectible (Sandostatin)
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@KaysHealingPath I hope it's a positive outcome. I'll be thinking of you x
KaysHealingPath · 31-35, F
Thanks hun @CheshireCatalyst 🤗 😘
Indy74 · 46-50, F
I'd have to think long and hard about it. But, I have had several turn on me and attack me in comments for no reason. I think, I would say no.
nomercyfortheweak · 26-30, T
Tell them to get their arse to the bus station and I'd meet them
Rescue them
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@questionWeaver would you feel comfortable taking them in?
No
JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M
Give them advice ....
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@JoeyFoxx what kind of advice?
JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M
where to stay....
TJNewton · M
Eat a banana
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