What do yo think f this train of thought

@Pureblossom There's a lot of bad - some very bad - things you can do and not break the law.

Using people for your own benefit or pleasure and risking their confidence, trust and quality of life to bolster your own, convincing others to trust you and betraying that trust,

If temporary benefit is your concept of living life to the best of your ability and it means you win and everyone else loses, that's bad and in the long run it's bad for you as well.

A life lived selfishly often waits patiently as a person sails serenely away from the wreckage they create, and then capsizes their lifeboat when there's no one left who cares.

@Mamapolo2016 Definitely not for temporary benefits that's why I said when it's necessary. ( but I guess if that's what you are into who can stop you?)

@Pureblossom It is not always apparent and not always immediate, but being 'bad' carries its own penalties, and I'm not talking about hell.

For instance, there is someone you want as a partner, and in order to make that happen, you have to lie - tell some whoppers - and it works. They are yours and you are triumphant!

You wil never quite be able to relax and bask in this love, because one corner of your mind knows that you tricked them into your arms and is waiting for them to discover the trickery. Sooner or later, they usually do.