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Should I forgive her?

I have a love-hate relationship with my Narcissist Mother who abuses me with her Authority power over me because I'm still under her roof. But now I can see she is regretful and trying to make it up to me by making it alright. But the days that I was in hell still haunts me today, and I don't know if I should really let go of that hurt and pain.

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LyricalOne · F

Why would you want to live your life holding onto hurt and pain? What does that accomplish?

Endlesstime89 · 31-35, F

@LyricalOne Because I was abused by her and I couldn't shake it off. I'm confused by her sudden change of behavior.

LyricalOne · F

@Endlesstime89 Forgiving her isn’t saying what she did was right. It’s freeing yourself from the control she has over you so you can lead a happier life. And deal with her behavior as it comes. You’ll be in a stronger position to do that when you’re no longer being held hostage.

Endlesstime89 · 31-35, F

Thanks.