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Do you hold grudges?

I can hold a grudge with my life. I mean, if that girl that bullied me in 3rd grade ever tried to be friendly with me id call her out on it and demand an apology even then id still resent her... bye...

theres stuff you just cant forget nor forgive..
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rckt148 · 61-69, M
Sure you can
I took the beat downs as long as I lived under my Dads roof like he said I had to ,,
But when I returned from basic ,on my way to my new duty station
I didnt live under his roof anymore (I hadn't since I was almost 14 ,but out of respect I still listened to his rules until that night )
And I settled that bully crap once and for all .

Now I can run into them at the store 40 yrs later
And they speak to me ,nicely ,with a smile even

Old grudges only hurt you ,they are not giving you a second thought
Your the only one hurting
I fixed that ,then it was over
GeniUs · 56-60, M
@rckt148 Forgotten not forgiven.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@GeniUs Now days I turn the other cheek ,,1 time
But I can't hold grudges
1 guy to this day when he see's me he is extra nice ,acts like were best buds
He put me through more hell than anyone ,and every time I caught him alone
I kicked his butt ,one on one ,none of them dare mess with me ,it was always 4 or 5 of them ,always
so he always had a gang around him ,he rode a motorcycle ,long hair ,leather jacket ,all the girls thought he was the stuff ,
But for some reason he would never leave me be ,well until that night when I got them all ,
cops didn't even get involved ,they knew this was a long time coming
He ended up going to prison for sex with a minor under 12
and when he gets out ,still ends up with one of the finest women in town .
So his name can still key me up a little ,but the rest ,I'm over it
I made my point
I was never a coward ,,it was my Dad saving their butts
I feared him way more than all of them put together
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@NankerPhelge whats the ? mark mean ?
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@rckt148 What does "Your the only one" mean? The word "the" cannot follow the word "your" and make sense. Both words need to be followed by a noun (e.g. "I like the car, is it your car?"). The two words together like as in "Your the only one" don't make sense. 🤔
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@NankerPhelge Brother you have to overlook my Grammar
I have been working since I was 13 supporting myself and others
I sucked in school so I quit ,I cheated off my future wife to get as far as I got ,so you would not be wrong to say in one sense you are dealing with a 9th grader who sucks when it comes to grammar ,but I can spell
Most people get it .or scroll on

What I meant was (thats probably not proper either but )
Was if you dwell on it ,you are the only one in pain
They move on to the next thing that gets their jollies and don't think of you again ,until the nest time they amuse themselves at your expense

If you would like ,you can proof read things I write ,mark my mistakes
Let me look it over and I'll do my best to get it right
Thats how I won medals in Revolution History
They could see I was a dumb ass ,but my composition was good and my facts and references were accurate ,so they marked my mistakes and let me write it again .I am willing to do that for you ,I think your a great guy
But stating the obvious ,my grammar sucks ,well its like screen doors on my boat
If you think I need them ,I'll put them on ,
But I have made this trip many times before ,and got by without them
But try to please everyone ,I'll add them screen doors if you say we need them .
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@rckt148 "What I meant was if you dwell on it, you are the only one in pain"

That wasn't what you said in your earlier post.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@NankerPhelge no sir I broke it down and explained what I meant
I am dumb ,but I know there is more than one way to skin a cat
For you I tried harder ,,and I hope the screen door thing made you laugh
if you don't find me resourceful ,I hope you at least find me funny
Have a good one my friend ,always a pleasure