UpsideOutInsideDown · 41-45, M
Could try to see it as a favour. Sort of showing you early on they aren't worth the effort of worrying over.
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@UpsideOutInsideDown Good answer!
They want to get out of a awkward situation, so say something to smooth their way out.
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@SW-User something like a first date that didn't go well.

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@VeronicaJane I expect a man to admit if he's not "feeling it." That's the adult, non cowardly thing to do.
@SW-User true. But maybe awkard, embarassed, or not sure how to say it. Then again, could just be a cad. 🙄
Degbeme · 70-79, M
His loss my dear. 🤗
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@Degbeme true true Deg 🤗
I don’t think I’ve experienced that I think they usually just ask right then versus letting me know ahead of time that they’re going to call if that makes sense ? but I’d be okay with them not calling since I hate talking on the phone lol. I feel like a lot of people in general like to talk on the phone and it’s just awkward and I have nothing to say.
If I were in that situation I’d think that they’re just saying it in the moment maybe, a lot of men tend to say things in the moment and then realize that’s not what they wanna do or they’re not as interested maybe.
If I were in that situation I’d think that they’re just saying it in the moment maybe, a lot of men tend to say things in the moment and then realize that’s not what they wanna do or they’re not as interested maybe.
elVato · 46-50, M
🤔 was there a promise of chocolate chip cookies in the conversation leading up to said phone call?
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@elVato ohhhh maybe that's were it all went wrong 🍪
elVato · 46-50, M
@Sunnykel76 Exactly. 😑
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
I WAS BUSY!!!!!
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@FloorGenAdm all work and no play
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Okay fine, next time you go to work I'm going to pull this $h1t on you. 😠
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
I wouldn't know, I don't do that
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@Groofydorkgerdo that's a good thing
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
So give him🖕.Lots more good looking men out there.
Elegy · 46-50
"You didn't answer the phone. I swear I called 15 times. I'm sure technology let you down and didn't record any of my attempts" 🙄
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@Elegy mmmmhmmmmm ;)
@Elegy but the missed call caller id didn't have your name?
Elegy · 46-50
@VeronicaJane *whispers
that was my joke. ;)
that was my joke. ;)
Newandimproved · 70-79, M
We tend to say things we know you want to hear.
Sorry..its true.
We think we are being nice.
Sorry..its true.
We think we are being nice.
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@Newandimproved I believe that
Newandimproved · 70-79, M
@Sunnykel76 so if he hasn't made plans with you and he says that he will call...believe it when you hear the ring.
Viper · M
From what I've seen, there isn't one main focus reason. I think guys oftenThough among the more common reasons would include
~ maybe they're nervous, don't know what to say or do
~ maybe they said it and forgot they said that
~ maybe they don't know you really wanted a call
~ maybe they know their intentions don't match your intentions (which in case it might be nice they didn't call)
~ maybe they're in jail with bubba :P
Also I think it's become a common phrase, to I'll see you later... I'll call you... and I've heard both sexes use this and then never do while the other one secretly waits hoping to be called.
~ maybe they're nervous, don't know what to say or do
~ maybe they said it and forgot they said that
~ maybe they don't know you really wanted a call
~ maybe they know their intentions don't match your intentions (which in case it might be nice they didn't call)
~ maybe they're in jail with bubba :P
Also I think it's become a common phrase, to I'll see you later... I'll call you... and I've heard both sexes use this and then never do while the other one secretly waits hoping to be called.
abe182 · 51-55, M
Because they have another girl? Idk
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@abe182 perhaps hes a player
abe182 · 51-55, M
@Sunnykel76 either he's into you or he's not or he's a dick.
YoMomma ·
Yeah 😤😡😠
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@YoMomma 😡
YoMomma ·
Lol dudes 😄😄 smh.. Sorry.. Sucky sucky heads 😄
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sexysusie · 36-40, F
🙁 x
Rokasu · 36-40, M
My bad.
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
😂@Rokasu
Kel, get even with guys like that.
Threaten that every time they do that, you will get even by sleeping with me.
THAT will teach them a lesson!
Threaten that every time they do that, you will get even by sleeping with me.
THAT will teach them a lesson!
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@questionWeaver OH MY!!!
Dionysus · 41-45, F
ugh, people that do that crap. I don't keep them around for long. They're just super pleasant to your face and say whatever feels right in the moment.
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@Dionysus yeah I said NEXT

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I hope you don't take that comment from hell serious
smh people
smh people
R5000 · 41-45, M
because they dont want to call

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@R5000 Don't want to, or want it to seem like you are not that important?
Montanaman · M
Guy would have to be crazy, not to call you. I'd be like, *Flip! Speed Dial!*
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Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@Montanaman that's it...he must be crazy
Montanaman · M
@Sunnykel76 I concur your diagnosis!😎
Montanaman · M
@Sunnykel76 btw, my name is Kelly, writer and photographer. 🌹
( That's the way it's done!)
( That's the way it's done!)
abe182 · 51-55, M
Women can't return a text to save their life even tho I know it's right in their hand.
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@abe182 don't get itv twisted 😊
abe182 · 51-55, M
@Sunnykel76 the problem clearly lies on both sides 😉
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@abe182 oh Abe.. lol

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Calling you tomorrow to answer this

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No credit

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Change of mind

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Found another
TonyPajamas · 22-25
I just say I will after constantly denying it. Phone cause are anxiety inducing. I hate them.

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That has always really bothered me, and I see it as "a game" to make you want them. If they are worth a damn, they won't play these games and will want to call you as soon as possible.
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@SW-User I am too old for games

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@Sunnykel76 Yes, and me too. Unfortunately, many men aren't.

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busy
NaughtyPickle · M
That’s a no brainer
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Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@kingkyri You are sweet...thanks 🤗
PervertedPrincessOfDeath · 31-35, T
Cause yo fugly
Montanaman · M
@PervertedPrincessOfDeath wtf?
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@PervertedPrincessOfDeath the 90s called and wants their word back
Newandimproved · 70-79, M
@PervertedPrincessOfDeath spoken like a true...nah I got nothing.
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
If that pic is you and he didn't call... he must be gay... 🤔

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Maybe they're shy, or more likely stupid.
SingingSilver89 · 31-35, F
Cause their stupid, I don't bother.
MethDozer · M
We are all jerks and just want thing......
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
@MethDozer I still have hope of finding a man true to his word
MethDozer · M
@Sunnykel76 You can.👍
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F