My doctor flat out told me that I was fat and I'm so close to being diabetic. I'm just big boned. I'm 5'3 and 266lbs. Is she right?

You don't need to be small to be healthy and bigger ladies are in now. Thin is out! Anways my doctor got in my face saying my cutting is out of control and lay off the junk food. She sternly told me I need to lose weight and if the cutting gets worse or if my weight does up she will be very upset and be on me. I keep telling her I'm just big boned but every time she shot back at me saying unless I wanna be on the 600 pound life she suggest me to lose weight. I stormed out crying because she hurt my feelings. My parents suggested I keep her as my PCP because the ones I had were too far or sugarcoated about my weight.