Are you willing to share all your insecurities with me ?

@SW-User that’s fine

Do you wanna share all your insecurities? @Stark

@SW-User sure!

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@SW-User yeah, I’ll share the ones I can think of. I’m not very trusting when it comes to people being genuine and their true intentions, I don’t believe people are capable of truly loving me romantically or really as much as I do them which causes me to stray away from people and keep my distance because I’m that much afraid of getting hurt, I feel like I’m way too skinny and my arms, legs, and bony body disgusts me at times, I’m terrible at math and will fail at it before I ask for help because I’m afraid of looking dumb in front of someone, I hate hanging out with people alone I feel uncomfortable unless there’s Atleast three people because I’m super socially awkward and I’m that much fearful of embarrassing myself I also feel the need to entertain or be interesting unless I’m in a group and I feel like I have nothing to talk about with someone alone it just really gives me anxiety.

😶. You’re either really brave, strong(psychologically) or you fully believe in the anonymity this website provides.

@Stark 👏.

@SW-User my insecurities are not really a secret lol I’m pretty open about sharing them I’m aware of them it is what it is. 🤷🏽‍♀️ They’re not really shameful to me they’re just issues I’m aware of and I wish I didn’t have and hopefully I can fix.

@Stark See, where you see shame, I see weakness.

I couldn’t ever say my insecurities for the fear of someone using them against me.

@SW-User I don’t see them as shame or weaknesses for other people to use. They maybe weaknesses that sometimes prevent me from doing things I want to do and can even make it really challenging but I never let it get to the point where others can use it against me and that’s really with anything my personality is pretty strong and i couldn’t let someone use anything against me really or have someone take advantage of me and me not doing anything due to fear. In a way I’ve always been that way towards others, I can’t let people have that much power to where they’re capable of taking advantage of me or attempting to control me I guess? My personality is too bold for it and it doesn’t really matter how much I like them I’ll drop people Them in a heartbeat if I feel threaten and if they’re some random stranger like on here I usually don’t entertain them and move on. 🤷🏽‍♀️

It probably isn’t that great of a thing to drop people so easily because it goes along well with my not trusting behavior and is one of the reasons I dont get attached to people easily and probably have close to no one really really close to me in my life.