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How high is my baggage going into a relationship?

1 - 10 and 10 being the highest. I have an older brother that needs constant care due to his disability. I will care for him now till the day he die, I love and treat him like my own child. Every person that comes into my life knows this. Him and I come in 1 package.
Graylight · 51-55, F Best Comment
Look, we ask have histories, we're all broken or damaged in some way.

In taking care of your brother, you show someone you're dedicated, loyal, determined and have a reserve of strength and love. You're committed and do the better thing when given a choice.

There's someone out there looking for just such a sturdy soul. Don't worry - been the time is right, you'll meet the partner who'll lighten your load and add to your life.

There are some things that some people cannot or will not accept. Those are not the ones I want and if/when they disqualify themselves, I am grateful.

When I sign on, I sign on, and I don't want to commit everything to anyone who can't or won't do the same.
One of my ex tried to get me to put him in a home. I kicked his ass to the curb. @Mamapolo2016
@Random1Thoughts Yes! The curb-kicking would have happened eventually anyway. An emotional lightweight wouldn't last long with you.
I realize your circumstances may cramp some people's style - but what better proof that you are loyal, faithful, loving, dependable?Those are the things most people say they want!
BeautifulMess · 26-30, F
I would never consider your brother to be baggage. He's family. Everyone has family you just have a special relationship with yours.
Aww that's true. @BeautifulMess
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Fair play to you !
No reason why you shouldn't be loved to.
@Picklebobble2
I'm also prepare to be alone.
appassionata · 36-40, M
Depends on who you are dating, amd their lifestyle.
Of course! @appassionata

 
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