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Be careful of who you show your weaknesses to.

People will use that shit against you.

I'm serious. Just go around acting like everything's perfect. Deal with your problems yourself.

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Nature3 · 56-60, M

Yep. It's true. I want to share to be authentic, but then I think that no good deed goes unpunished many times.

PoizonApple · 41-45, F

@Nature3 Abso-frikkin-lutely. I've always been this open book but it has rarely helped me. I am turning over a new leaf.

Nature3 · 56-60, M

@PoizonApple This is perhaps why we truly never know even those close to us. Everybody hides something and then our own perceptions cloud seeing the other person properly. We filter it through our expectations, dreams, society, etc. This in a nutshell is mostly why relationships are a messy clusterfuck.

PoizonApple · 41-45, F

People are so variable anyway.

Nature3 · 56-60, M

@PoizonApple I'm so jaded at 51. Never married. Was afraid mine would turn out like friends. I know few remotely happy married people. Few. Eventually one or both cheat, the resentment builds over crap and well you just change and don't share much stuff in common anymore. Married people are great though in minimizing how miserable they are.