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Should men stop using this approach to try to date women?

A lot of guys (my uncle did this too) will ask to buy a girl dinner, the girl accepts, then the guy never hears from them again. I've heard multiple men talk about this. I can not imagine myself ever agreeing to go on a date with a guy if I didn't even think I would like him. And do women actually go to dinner with a guy just to get free dinner? That blows my mind

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SW-User

Most guys aren't creative enough to think of anything besides dinner..
If they can't make a good impression it's not the woman's fault. She shouldn't feel any obligation to see him again and he shouldn't blame her if it doesn't work out.

Magenta · F

@SW-User Like a picnic? 🙂

SW-User

@Magenta
In the park.. or at the botanical gardens..

JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M

@SW-User Me at the Botanic Gardens:

Magenta · F

@SW-User Lovely and simple and in a relaxing atmosphere. Coffee and treats in a cozy coffee shop would be sweet too.

SW-User

@Magenta
My local place.
:)

SW-User

@JoyfulSilence
Very nice!

JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M

@SW-User I like the kiddie table!

Magenta · F

@SW-User Oooo colorful! But it's a tad bright. Dim those lights. ;-)

SW-User

@Magenta
The sun through the windows behind me..
Live music in the evening.
Poetry..

It's a small place but nice, i think you'd like it.

Magenta · F

@SW-User Sounds parfait.