If you are an aquarius man, how would you describe yourself when falling in love?

I have not met my ex(from sch time) for many years n by the time we met again he was already married with a few kids.He is one crazy man as he has been chasing me for two years now!He sent love quotes,his pics and all kinds of crazy messages.He even wanted to divorce his wife who has just recently given birth if I accepted him of course hell not.You have to be firm when dealing with them.Luckily he has calmed down a bit now,didn't bother me as much.I avoid seeing n talking to him.Just hope he will forget.But they are usually very smart ppl with unique thinking.