ever feel like ur friends are just using u or only talking to u when they want or need something or have nothing better to do

only asking cause i feel like my friends irl couldn't be arse with me anymore first they bearly talk to me the only time they talk to is when there telling me there busy and telling me to stop sending so much message now there not evening opening my messages :(

and when they need something or want something or havnt nobody else to talk too then they start acting like my friend again it not fair on me :(