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Sucks being used!

The man in my life hates me deep down inside! But he won't leave me eighter.
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Sapio · 46-50, M
You mean your fiancé? Oh and you mean 'either' right?

I'd say something but I've come to see you in all honesty as someone on here who vents, complains, whatever you want to call it but that's the long and short if it. You'll never do anything about it. You'll just make another post in a week's time.

On top of that there are plenty who have posted their opinions already.

I will say this. Good luck and brace for impact. The only way you'll learn is when things crash. Unfortunately that's how most people learn. So at least you are not alone.
@Sapio It use to surprise me when I see people in abusive situations before! I always wondered what's keeping this person in a toxic relationship. But being in these shoes I have full view so let me explain, First the abuser destroys your confidence, then they make you feel worthless and unwanted. When you reach lowest point they can play you like a puppet! The thing is I'm beautiful but he refuses to even compliment me!
Sapio · 46-50, M
@RadiantRuby I totally understand the conditioning that happens as a result of the abuse. But you talk and talk about it all the time. That tells me you know that it's time to go.