What do you find sexy in a man/woman?

I find that a man is sexiest when he can actually hold a conversation without talking about sex.

In addition to having a nice body (which they aren’t afraid to show), I find kindness/caring and paying attention to me to be sexy traits for both men and women.

someone i can connect with, hold a conversation, easy to get along with

physically, with women smile and eyes are instant attractions, and a nice body doesn't hurt. guys, I like a smile and nice chest and arms

I like that response, but what if you notice him checking your body out, would that turn you off?

Physically, 2 out of 3 ain't bad, but personality and morals are a must.