Isn't he absolutely horrible?
I got all dolled up for nothing..... I always shower and put on nice outfits and fix my hair really nice even though I don't plan to go out..... he never compliments me :( ..... It hurts to be ignored 馃槩
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trackman11 路 61-69, M
Unfortunately, it's too easy to take those closest to us for granted. I assume that you have told him how his lack of attention or compliments makes you feel. If not, communication is helpful. We are all wired a little differently.
@trackman11 I never say anything mainly because I feel that compliments should not be forced... if I ask I would feel like I'm attention seeking..... or begging for compliments.
trackman11 路 61-69, M
I don't know enough to say anything, so please feel free to ignore. I think that is a common mistake. You don't say anything because he should just want to compliment you and he very possibly is assuming that you already know that he thinks you are beautiful. After time passes, we can get really lazy in communication and it's quite possible that he doesn't see the need to make the effort. My assumption is that you are with him because he has some good qualities and this may be one area that he needs some help. If my wife had assumed that I should know how to be romantic and how to "love" her without some good conversations, I would be single by now. At the same time, I've had to share with her little things that she does or doesn't do that made me feel neglected or hurt.. we both grew through those difficult conversations and 33 years later, she remains my best friend, the sexiest woman alive and my favorite date. (Often a conversation would seem like it failed, but it never did). your relationship is different then mine and unique so this may be of no help. I hope it changes for you my radiant friend. :)
@trackman11 Thank you 馃