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Hanging2 · 51-55, M
Yes.
Can I claim extraneous circumstances??
Can I claim extraneous circumstances??
SW-User
Lol @Hanging2
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
@SW-User Question for you
Do you think that it is right for someone else to govern when and if you can have sex?
Do you think that it is right for someone else to govern when and if you can have sex?
SW-User
@Hanging2 yes your wife is supposed to govern you
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
@SW-User What happens if she was doing a terrible job or had given up all together?
If you had a plumber that was doing a terrible job would you look for another?
If you had a plumber that was doing a terrible job would you look for another?
SW-User
@Hanging2 what do you mean ? She didn't let you at all ? If so you're a man and of course you're going to cheat 🙄
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
@thinkbigaboutlife You know what is wrong?
To live in a relationship where your masculinity is eroded and that your confidence evaporates into the ether.
To feel your love drain from you as if your wrists are cut and you are slowly bleeding out.
To believe when someone says to you that things will be all right and that in the end they are not.
I din't see that in any of my marriage vows.
And that is why we are no longer together.
Marriage is a religious concoction to control the masses. You believe what you want to and judge who you wish it makes no difference to me.
In the end, you have only one life and you live it as best as you can, provided you can live in your own skin.
To live in a relationship where your masculinity is eroded and that your confidence evaporates into the ether.
To feel your love drain from you as if your wrists are cut and you are slowly bleeding out.
To believe when someone says to you that things will be all right and that in the end they are not.
I din't see that in any of my marriage vows.
And that is why we are no longer together.
Marriage is a religious concoction to control the masses. You believe what you want to and judge who you wish it makes no difference to me.
In the end, you have only one life and you live it as best as you can, provided you can live in your own skin.
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
@SW-User Years actually. We talked about it and I told her it was unfair that she controlled my sexuality in the format of a marriage. Told her she had really 2 options. Step up to the plate or move aside.
SW-User
@Hanging2 she didn't use her stuff and please yoU lol 😂
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
@SW-User Waste want want not!
SW-User
What does that mean ? @Hanging2
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
@SW-User Use it of loose it!
She didn't use it so she lost me.
She didn't use it so she lost me.
SW-User
Ok @Hanging2
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How old was you cheat partner? @Hanging2
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
@SW-User I was 37 at the time and she would have been roughly the same age.
And can I say I only cheated the one occasion with her.
And can I say I only cheated the one occasion with her.
@Hanging2 There is a huge difference between leaving a bad marriage and staying in it and cheating instead. Leaving is not cheating. It's the right thing to do when things don't work out. I'm sorry this has happened to you. I too left my marriage because it was a bad one, but I don't believe in cheating to fix a bad marriage. It's much more honorable to leave (after having tried everything to make it better first) than cheat.