If you lived in a terribly unfortunate place with lack of food opportunity and water why on earth would you have kids ? Like why ?

@dragonfly46 You won't.

@dragonfly46 perhaps don't have sex until you have stuff sorted or use whatever people in the past used .

@Pureblossom LOL...You've never been to a third world country or visited with women from that country have you? No worries, I'll excuse your idealism and ignorance on the matter. You're young.

@dragonfly46 it's not that . It's just that I feel strongly about me not bringing life into the world anyway . I'm into adopting though .
And that's coming from a person who would be able to provide even laxuries to the children . So I wonder if one can feel guilty about bringing life into the would when they would have food ect available to them how can some people in harsh conditions be able to do it that's all.

It's not just me I know who has doubts about having kids . A lot of my friends and other apps do as well .

@Feuerwehrmann many are that lame brained about the issues.. and most of them are contributors to the problem.

@Feuerwehrmann How is that? It's reality. If you are in a village in a hut and you have to walk miles to get water and your lucky to get any food for that day, and your husband who you were given to likes having sex with you for fun, where is she going to get birth control? Should she just keep telling her husband no don't touch me? Do you understand my answer now, little grasshopper? Think before you comment on someones answer.

@Pureblossom I think if you are fighting every single day just to survive, feeling guilty because your husband will not stop having sex with you is a luxury she cannot afford.

@Pureblossom Also birth control is never 100%. Even with birth control you have limited control. Women in impoverished nations have little resources and no rights.