Am I in the wrong ?

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Yes

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So helped a person out last week - they had nowhere to sleep so I asked a friend if they could stay for the night - he said yes but 6 nights later he was still there with no intention to leave so this morning I had to tell him it was time to go , that he had outstayed his welcome and he needed to leave . It went down so badly - got called all the names under the sun ! Imagine a 16stone man having a go at a girl! So I got upset , then I heard a female cough - who's that I asked and I found out he had a woman in the room - how disrespectful can you actually be , that literally was the last straw - I opened the bedroom door - told her to get up and get out! then I looked at him and said you too - get out and leave the key !

Last time I will do anyone a favour - not worth all that hassle !
Felt bad that he had nowhere to go but lets face it he is 38- he should of made more of an effort to find somewhere to go and it would not of come to this !
Was I too harsh?

SW-User

The only way you were in the wrong was not standing your ground when he broke the original agreement he made with you. But if he was someone who deserved any form of sympathy, he would of made all the effort to get his shit together but instead he took advantage of your compassion and generosity.