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thememphisbelle · 51-55, F
So sick!!!
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thememphisbelle · 51-55, F
Thats not anything to play about! The truth is this really does happen to some poor innocent little girls!

noonabell · 36-40, F
As a mom of all girls,this may happen to me one day and it's something I've given a lot of thought. Initially, I'd be angry because I make a point to be open and honest with my girls about everything. I will do everything in my power to make sure they are educated about contraception and all of the risks and responsibility that comes with sex. So I'd be angry because she should have known how to prevent it.

With that said, shit happens. No birth control method is 100% effective. So I'd get over it quickly. I'd make sure she knew her options. Abortion, adoption, or raising her child. From there I'd support her in whatever choice she made. She needs me to hold her hand and cry with her while she goes in for an abortion, I'm there. No questions asked. She decides adoption is what she wants, I'll be right there with her grilling potential parents and making sure she's respected and gets what she wants out of the arrangement. She wants to raise her child? I'll work my ass off to support them both so she can finish school and become the best mom she can be. Whatever she needs, she'll get nothing but love.
sadvicious · 22-25, F
Last year my ex girlfriend got pregnant with my baby. I literally think my mum was more upset than hers. her mum was pretty chill and helped us figure stuff out. my mum threw a shoe at me and went on like a rampage telling me if I was "so grown up" from now on I had to do chores and stuff lol
My teenage daughter is now 31. And my 20 year old son I doubt id getting preggo anytime soon. Anbd my daughter has no intention -yet- of having children.

But as a good parent- I would have been supportive of her.
thememphisbelle · 51-55, F
I have already had to deal with this..I told her everything would be okay and that she had a family that loved her and would help her in any way possible! The baby is now 2 and my daughter is 22!
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If under 16 I would question my parenting skills but it happens all too often nowadays, my reaction would be shock I guess but all I could do would do what a Mother is supposed to do and guide her and stand by her whatever decision she should take.
I'm not sure really? as you never know until it actually happens how you are going to react, I might flip out? Girls are maturing faster these days would it be morally wrong to make the decision for her? It's a hard question. But if over 16 well in the UK you are classed as an Adult so not much I could say or do?
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I'd be shocked ,mostly because I don't have a daughter
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Angry and worried.
lostlil1 · 36-40, F
I would make sure she stayed in school and the baby stayed with our family. But since i have sons i would expect them to stay in school and find ways to help support their child.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
@jake lol that's rough. But I understand her response.

If I got pg as a teenager I'd be dead. I wasn't even allowed to have a boyfriend until 18.
Ghostrider · 51-55, M
I would be shocked and angry at first but of course I would support her in any way she needed.
I'd tell her everything will be ok and give her the paper so she can find somewhere to live
SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
She threw her shoe at you lol you're lucky she didn't do anything worse.
Nikkita · 36-40, T
With compassion, patience, understanding and as much support as she needed.
I'd wonder how I ended up with a teenage daughter.
Abbenthewarwolf · 18-21, M
Don't have one.I'm to young to have a kid
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SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
Wonder since when do I have a child.
Nonamefornow · 51-55, F
My daughter is 18. I'd be shocked, and would be speechless emotionless to begin with, with the feeling of disappointment, until I can find the right thing to say before anyone be hurt. Besides I love babies/children.
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ladycae · 100+, F
i would tell her i love her her show her compassion and support and hep her adjust to the fact that her childhood is over.
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I would regret not raising a smarter kid.
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Haha april fools i got it:P
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Just imagining the situation, I'd be very disappointed. But I'd help her sort things out and plan what she wanted to do next. And I'd try to support whatever she decided to do.
I would love her and her baby to the best of my ability
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Lacsar- lol! I would break out in a heart beat! 😝
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