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It's fine to act out sometimes, I'm not condemning anyone for that. But for crying out loud, don't justify it. Don't say "that's okay" or "I was right to do that" it was a mistake and they need to acknowledge it as exactly that: a mistake. The moment people start feeling like it's not their fault or they blame other people. When they create that distance? When they don't allow themselves to be humble, and instead turn to pride? That's what creates the worst people. It's easy to do awful things or accept these things when you don't see yourself being wrong. Nice people don't justify cruel treatment of anyone, no matter how much they messed up.