why do some males get so defensive if someone of the same gender flirts with them and tries picking them up?

@Waymore It’s a strange phenomenon from any vantage point.

@Waymore Don’t know why they’re so concerned about what goes on in other people’s bedrooms.

@Waymore Exactly! 😁

@LyricalOne
No troubles there, they might even ask if they can watch. 🙄

@SapphicHeart I’ve seen it with men I’ve dated. Lesbians, they’re thrilled. Gay men, they won’t even discuss. 😕

@LyricalOne
Goes for some of the bisexual women too, in all fairness. I've been talking to bisexual women who were in a relationship with a man. They did not consider it cheating if doing it with a woman. I asked them if it were okay for them if their man did it with another man. Seemed not to be the same in their eyes. Hmm.

@SapphicHeart Double standards abound. Humans are strange creatures.

@LyricalOne
It goes both ways at times. Sadly.

@Waymore
I can't tell you why. It's by no means very logic. I do have met a few women who loved the idea of seeing two men together, but they are rare.