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When will I ever learn? I hate myself for believing the best in people.

PEOPLE LIE.
Thingschange4444 · 56-60, M
They do. Sometimes giving out ur trust can give u back a hard boot in the teeth when u realise the truth. But I have certain people in my life I trust fully. Less than the fingers on one hand though.
OverMe · 46-50, F
@Thingschange4444 😢😢😢
Thingschange4444 · 56-60, M
@OverMe Hugs.
OverMe · 46-50, F
@Thingschange4444 Thanks. 🤗
People are full of shit. Even the ones that mean no harm, but once you find something inside yourself, other people's shit means nothing and you can laugh. People will always be shit, people will always be good also and most of us will suffer at the hands of others and feel inadequate and doubt ourselves. Your not alone even though it feels that way 😊
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
Believing the best in people is a positive trait. Lying is a negative trait.

They're the problem not you. Keep believing and good people will reward your faith. Stop believing and nobody will ever be able to prove themselves to you.
OverMe · 46-50, F
@CheshireCatalyst Good advice. Thank you.
Miram · 31-35, F
I don't think it's your fault. It's human nature to believe the best ,and it was/can be the beginning of fascinating ethical social changes. Lying is rarely ever needed.
OverMe · 46-50, F
@Miram Thank you for that. 🤗
Miram · 31-35, F
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SW-User
Isn't that a good trait, believing the best in people? Why hate yourself?
SW-User
@OverMe I'm sorry you've been hurt. Maybe it'll be OK. But you've no need to be sorry or hate yourself
OverMe · 46-50, F
@SW-User Thank you. 💙
SW-User
@OverMe Welcome☺
LyricalOne · F
People suck. They keep showing up wherever I go. 😕
OverMe · 46-50, F
WildHeart · 41-45, F
"Some people" lie, hurt and betray...etc not all. I agree it hurts to keep trusting only to be disappointed but I wont paint "all" people with the same old dried out paint. Not everyone is the same.
WildHeart · 41-45, F
@OverMe I understand your pain, and I also know how it feels to be this hurt. I made the mistake of shutting off everybody, even those who are truly genuine only because I was afraid of being damaged again. This is not called living, we have one life lets live it. I am sorry for what you are going through right now.
OverMe · 46-50, F
@WildHeart Thank you for the response. I know logically what you are saying is right.
WildHeart · 41-45, F
@OverMe 🤗
Peaches · F
Don't be, sounds like you are a down to earth person who just doesn't assume things about other people. 🥰 We need more like you.🍀
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