how do you stop feeling like you arent good enough

By reflecting on what you compare yourself to; and whether those comparisons are fair based on your circumstances. You also have to realize nobody is perfect. My best friend zohrah, she puts makeup on and wears bum pads and every guy will come up to her. It's easy for me to not feel good enough. But I look for the negatives if I was to be that good enough; the only guys who approach her are confident fuckboys so I would only attract that. So you could think about the negatives that come along with being 'good enough' e.g money/success = people only using you for money. Also, I got rid of instagram and stopped looking at everyone's snapchats stories and that helped me stop comparing so it could help you if you do that 😊