What happened to men?

Men used to be so cool.

Men like Jack Nicholson.
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I don't think it was feminism. Because a real man wouldn't feel emasculated by a woman getting her fair share. (By the way women who berate men for being gentlemam are not feminists, they are insecure and sad.) I like to share respect for my man. I enjoy being total equals, and secure men aren't afraid of that. I just don't know what happened.