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Does it annoy you too?

Yesterday I met up with a friend...made an effort to go because she was feeling down, but I ended up feeling really annoyed. She phoned about 3 people in quick succession and one was quite a long phone call to her sister. I said to her that she didn't make me feel like she was enjoying my company if she was more interested in phoning other people when with me. She said I text my boyfriend, but if I do text him it is just a quick text while still being able to speak to her. I think it's a bit different, and I still feel wound over this.

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xCoinx · 31-35, M

Yea. Makes me wanna say, you don't need me to be here so you can sit on the phone. I'm not here just incase you need someone to entertain you, if you're not gonna hang out with me i'll go so you can get on with your phone calls

Rootstoblossom · 46-50, F

She called them? I could see accepting the calls and saying, I am out with a friend I will call you later. But initiating calls doesn't seem right to me.

Moonstar14 · 56-60, F

She called them, and not even returning a call kind of thing. She intitiated the call with her sister saying "Hi......., just calling to see how you are and then was on the phone for ages." She also rang 2 other people and rang home to see if anyone else could come out, as some of her family are down. Really made me feel like the most boring person on the planet.

Sheena · 56-60, F

This is exactly where we are going wrong. No site or call should compensate for being with people...do calls and Internet when you're alone not with others. I am sorry this happened to you..it is ridiculous. I know someone who does this but it is like she can't miss out on anything...and she thinks she will if she doesn't surf or call people... Maybe your friend is one of these..

SW-User

It would annoy me. Just stop bothering

Rootstoblossom · 46-50, F

I think it is totally understandable to feel hurt in this situation, but it also sounds like she did not intend it to be hurtful. People usually confuse and exhaust me and social rules seem to be different now with everyone permanently attached to their phones.

Moonstar14 · 56-60, F

I just feel really low about this. It is her birthday next week though, and I will be the bad guy if I upset her before her birthday. But for that I would definitely be saying to her...or should I anyway?

CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F

That doesn't bother me. I don't expect to be the main focus with people I'm near. Hell, i spent dinner with my family cutting up on here last night lol

SW-User

I'm sorry but that's just plain rude of her.

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