how do people percieve you?

@Primnproper thats great. sadly i can't even do that.

@popmol why not?

@Primnproper i see horror

@popmol what in yourself?

@Primnproper well i think i'm complete mess and trash in side and out.

@popmol ok but how do you feel towards other people..how do you conduct yourself..

@Primnproper can you explain this? i don't understand miss.

@popmol well how do you treat others, are you respectful of their feelings, would you show compassion and help if you could...I believe I know the answer already but wish to hear it from you.

@Primnproper i try to be repsectuful and kind and always help. thats what i always do.
compassion is hard for me but the rest i try!
i always try to be kind and respectful!

@popmol I've seen compassion from you before towards members..so you shouldnt be seeing trash when you look at yourself but a very decent human being who is trying his best..

@Primnproper well i'm not sure. i know what to say and what people want to hear i think. but the compassion itself is hard. although i think i can place myself in their place.

thank you miss but then the outside is a mess too.

@popmol you should give yourself more credit sweetheart, what matters is what is within us, underneath everything on the outside..have faith in the real you deep down.

@Primnproper wwll deep down i'm the child that my father yelled at for laughing too much. but now i'm filled with hate and anger. also sadness and depression.

@popmol from experience, hate and anger only hurt yourself..try seeing that your father had no grounds for treating you that way and the problems were his not yours..now you can either carry his problems on your shoulders which will hold you back or say no I'm not responsible for his issues and look forward in your own life, firstly by seeing that you are a good person even if you are misunderstood.

@Primnproperi don't know if i can miss :( i want to try but i don't know.

@popmol my parents only ever really taught me the wrong way to behave..I didn't want to be like either of them so I decided for myself the person I wanted to be and I took my own path and handled it much better than what they showed me.

@Primnproper my mother let me grow up as a gentlemen. and my father was the thing i didn't want ot be either. horror itself.

well thats great for you miss :)

@popmol you have everything in you to be a great man and you will find yourself..☺

@Primnproper thank you :) i hope i'll just make a special woman happy some day :)

@popmol oh I'm in no doubt you will..the foundations are there plain to see..have a great day!☺

@Primnproper thank you :) i hope you have a great day as well :)