Do narcissists ever really care about another but blame them if things don't work out?

@walabby No, I haven't been but a close friend of mine was in such a relationship. They discarded them and wow! did all hell break loose! They really want all control and this person could not accept that someone had decided to end it with them and was so vindictive and nasty. Showed their true colours though, sadly, for everyone. My friend felt so guilty, but that was the intention that they would. Sad and pathetic.

@Zoranna Oh yes. Everyone should run a mile from a narcissist...

@walabby Yeah well, this narcissist is absolutely gorgeous looking, knows it and thought she held all the cards. Wrong! Looks aren't everything, so she's finding out, unfortunately.

@Zoranna Looks only get one's foot in the door. Then it's personality that counts. For shy prospective partners with not great self confidence, looks can actually count against you...

@walabby Yes I agree, she's relying too much on her looks but she's too young to have the experiences she professes she has. By the way though, I'm not that bad in that score either hehe. Thank you Mum! hehe But looks are definitely not a good criteria, pity most don't see that. I'm not shy, just reserved but confident in who I am. You are too, I can tell. Good onya. 🥂

@Zoranna Good on you too.. :) It's how one handles one's good looks that shows character... I suspect that your character is way better than adequate.. ;)