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SerenitiesScars · 36-40, M
Probably true... 🤔 But then what do you call all those guys who CLAIM to be "Nice guys" that don't get any girls because they're all after the "Bad boys"
🤔 Insecure liars??
🤔 Insecure liars??
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
@SerenitiesScars They are not claiming it to the woman, but to their friends or acquaintances.
SerenitiesScars · 36-40, M
@greenmountaingal You don't know that.. I've seen plenty of people talk about how some guy told them how good they were going to treat them and turns out to be an ass... All words, no action...
Same with women... It's all sides of a spectrum.. Especially in online formats.. People pop up online.. Boo-hoo about something that happened.. And usually without second guessing or hearing both sides of the story people just start babying the person for the attention they're seeking even if they were a total nut job and that person is lucky to be as far away from them as possible...
I had to start thinking more clearly than just accepting peoples words online as gospel because I started doing that for awhile too.. Something about the drama that allures people... Now I just give a general amount of advice instead of assuming that everything is true.. But on the off chance it were to be true perhaps the advice given could help since you never know..
Same with women... It's all sides of a spectrum.. Especially in online formats.. People pop up online.. Boo-hoo about something that happened.. And usually without second guessing or hearing both sides of the story people just start babying the person for the attention they're seeking even if they were a total nut job and that person is lucky to be as far away from them as possible...
I had to start thinking more clearly than just accepting peoples words online as gospel because I started doing that for awhile too.. Something about the drama that allures people... Now I just give a general amount of advice instead of assuming that everything is true.. But on the off chance it were to be true perhaps the advice given could help since you never know..