Do u feel like you are the least important one when u are hanging out with squad/group of people

I've had it both ways, personally I now prefer to be somewhere in-between the two.

When I was the most important member of a group, leading all those beneath me in the hierarchy, it became very exhausting. I was constantly expected to know the answers, plan strategy and operations and control everything.

Absolute power is not as fun as it sounds.. Although i must admit it does have its perks.