misaki · 26-30, F
That gives me a lift to move forward.
Don't worry about what he does. Just do what's best for you
PoetryNEmotion · F
@boston408 Facebook is false. Don't look at it.
boston408 · M
@PoetryNEmotion lol true
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updown2020 · 61-69, M
It not about your brother it's about you. If you do not want to be living at home then do something about it. Look at it this way you are saving lots of money because having a house cost money and come with many bills and living at home well you get your meals you do not have to cook or clean and you have company.
DanielChristensen · 46-50, M
Comparison is the enemy of joy, I read here a while back.
Not trying is how nothing changes.
You can do many things. Get a 2 year degree. Be making decent money. Go from there
Not trying is how nothing changes.
You can do many things. Get a 2 year degree. Be making decent money. Go from there
Mondayschild · F
Stop comparing yourself to your brother. Get out there and go to a trade school and get yourself a good job.
Stop whining
Stop whining
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
@Mondayschild BA
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
Your brother probably enjoys what he does and enjoyed his time responsibly in school. I’m in a very similar situation after studying in school hard then burning out and dropping out of college. I’m 30 now, and unsure what to do. Do I continue on the career route I set out for myself at the beginning of this year, or do I aim to save my little income to go back to school and get an AA or do I seek an apprenticeship in a trade. I like what I do but I don’t think there’s much promise where I live long term. Seeking another career would allow me to get the hell away from where I am and provide financial relief to pay off some debts.
boston408 · M
@Mondayschild I'm not whining, just saying.
HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M
That should motivate you
boston408 · M
@HannibalMontanimal meh I guess
boston408 · M
@HannibalMontanimal actually it should motivate me to do even better. To have a better house, job, and car than him! 😌
PoetryNEmotion · F
You mustn't compare yourself to others. It is undesirable. Each of us at our own pace. You move forward one step, one day at a time. There is no giving up. You are not stupid. Keep moving on.
bijouxbroussard · F
No, it means his timetable was different than yours, that's all. Whatever you want to do, do it, on your own time and schedule. Don't become discouraged by comparing yourself to others; map out your own path. 🙂