how easy do you fall in love? can you fall for someone just over someones appearance?

@whateverhappens ouch why be with someone who doesnt show you respect?

@SW-User they showed me respect i meant just didnt have any connection basically, either they wanted more & i didnt or they liked partying & i dont want anyone who does that.. or both lost interest.

in other words i dont connect with ppl my age 😅 it never seemed too work out

do you connect with people older than? maybe youre just on a different maturity level.

@SW-User yes i dated someone much older than i before and it was good worked out quite well

im kind of out the loop.. ive actually never dated.

@SW-User how come?

rarely ever felt that way with anyone.. only fell for 4 girls. each one turned me down. last two were online and didnt do commitments. the one hurt a lot she was the one that got me out of my depression state but 2 years of friendship and was lied to a lot of and well turned out to be one of those girls that gets around. that kind of hurt when you liked someone and they turned out to be that way. i need to have a connection to someone and its just been really rare for me to feel.

@SW-User wow 😓 all i can tell u is not everyone is like that,, dont let the past ruin future BUT dont let your guard down easily.. and at the same time dont have walls up.. balance it in someway

its just the way that i am.. its just hard for me to connect with others in that kind of way. but falling hard for that one girl that got around kind of messed me up with trusting others. been seeing too much of those kinds of behaviors online. its like theres no loyalty or commitment. just got from one person to the next to the next. and im highly monogamous. its just trying to find that one person that you click really well with. all i know is love is real as ive felt it but i just dont know if ill ever experience it being returned.

@SW-User dont give up😊

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