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I just don't know what to do

I just found out that my bestfriend's girl was cheating on him. Should i tell him? Or not? I'm freaking confused now. I must be sleeping right now
SW-User
If you guys are close and you know he trusts you and you can PROVE that there is something going on, maybe you should. I know I would want someone to tell me.
Madhatter · 31-35, M
I think the friendly thing to do would be to let him know. The alternative is to just sit silently while it continues to happen, dragging out a relationship that is costing him time and money only to be rewarded with pain.
HuckleberryFriend · 26-30, F
Madhatter · 31-35, M
@HuckleberryFriend Rip it off like a band-aide. Sucks either way, but sucks a little bit less to just get it over with.
HuckleberryFriend · 26-30, F
@Madhatter I'll tell him after his bday
Youni19 · 26-30, F
If you have proof, go ahead. Time is precious, he shouldn't waste it with someone like that, imo
HuckleberryFriend · 26-30, F
@Youni19 but tomorrow is his bday :(
Youni19 · 26-30, F
@HuckleberryFriend Tell him the day after
HuckleberryFriend · 26-30, F
@Youni19 okay I will thanks :|
If it's someone I'm not close to or don't know very well I'd stay out of it. If it's someone I'm close to and I know very well I would let them know and they could choose to do whatever they want with that information. I would also be supportive through the situation as much as I could be.
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Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
I would tell him, think how you would feel if you were with someone that was cheating on you, probably would want to know.
HuckleberryFriend · 26-30, F
@Lackwittyname how should I start? :(
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@HuckleberryFriend Just tell him how you found out, I would not try to sugar coat it, and be there as a friend to support him.
tynamite · 31-35, M
Say nothing about it. Don't ruin the relationship. What people do in their personal life is not your concern.
HuckleberryFriend · 26-30, F
@tynamite but It hurts :(
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
it's up to you.


my god he must be a walking chlamydia nightmare.
HuckleberryFriend · 26-30, F
SW-User
how did you find out? he might not agree if there is no proof
HuckleberryFriend · 26-30, F
@SW-User my bestfriend has some speculations on her because he saw one of their convo but the girl explained and I always told him to think positive. Just now I accidentally click the girl's profile (which i really don't do) and I freaking trace out a fcking sweet with hearts i dunno stuff and they were bith consistent in doing such things up to now.

 
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