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If someone ignores you for weeks, even when you tell them good news, they don't like you, right? Friends don't ignore you, do they?

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Sweet517 · 51-55, F
IMHO people make time for those they value. If someone doesn't text you back for weeks either their phone is dead, they are in a coma, they are going through something awful or just plain ghosting you.
If it's a coma, you'd probably know it from social media or other friends. If it's about going through something, it's still expected to text back and say so.
The smart money is on you're being ghosted. If it's that, you may hear back at some point but I doubt you'd get a good answer explaining the silence.
Sorry you're going through this, tootsie roll. It hurts. ❤️
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@Sweet517 thanks, yes it hurts.... But I have to accept it. Can't force someone to like me.
Steveswife7665 · 46-50, F
@Sweet517 thing is she's been told. She's been aware of her friends situation she has it in her she's hated it's not true she refuses to believe it
Sweet517 · 51-55, F
@SW-User Time to binge watch Harry Potter. Voldemort is a treacherous one.
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@Steveswife7665 Let him tell me, that's all I asked. He won't, what does that tell you?
Sweet517 · 51-55, F
@Steveswife7665 @SW-User
I can see wanting to be told directly unless they're too sick to operate a phone. Having said that, you're probably not being hated, but at least not a top priority. I say give it time. Cream rises to the top. If they value you as a friend, you'll hear something eventually.
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@Sweet517 maybe...
Sweet517 · 51-55, F
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