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I need advice...

So, I really love my job, I'm very lucky. I work with a great bunch of gals, that I truly enjoy each day. But occasionally they schedule a "girls night out". And I certainly enjoy spending time with them. But after a long week at work, sometimes I'm simply to tired. But I will usually go, because I feel obligated. I always have a nice time, yet sometimes I'm really not up to going. If I'm not up to it.. What should I do.. Suck it up its only a couple hours?

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fun4us2b · M Best Comment

Go, get out there and have fun...you can be boring and chill anytime...

fun4us2b · M

@fun4us2b Yay for BA! Did you go?

fairone · F

@fun4us2b I did go.. and it was fun! Thanks for the encouragement and asking!😁

fun4us2b · M

@fairone 🤗

hlpflwthat · M

40 hours week after week is a lot of time to spend with a group. And enough for me, honestly. Maybe once a season, every 3 or 4 months. More than that would be too much for me.

MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F

You have a few options:
1) Go, and stay for ONE drink
2) Say you are tired and go home
3) If you had other plans, just say so
4) Just say you aren't feeling it this time.

robbie2499 · 61-69, F

No. At least I wouldn't. It's perfectly understandable to not want to partake after working all day. If they are the great girls you describe they will understand.

Egg01 · 56-60, F

Do what is right for you and don't feel obliged to join in every time. They will understand and be fine with that I'm sure.

nedkelly · 61-69, M

Just go occasionally I prefer not to see work colleges after works hours

Virgo79 · 61-69, M

If you don't want to, don't go!

Milesofsmiles · 61-69, M

If you don't feel up to it don't go

newstu · 61-69, M

I would.....

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