why do women want a bad guy and yet complain about them?

@SW-User yes. My youngest daughter is a rescuer. I keep telling her she can't fix a broken mind. She still keeps trying. And it's not just men she's trying to rescue. Anyone who is out of order, needs repairs. Unfortunately, they don't feel broken, so they feel as if she's trying to control them. It's a real problem when they are used to being the ones in control.

@Serenitree I know the feel, because somewhere in my mind even I want to fix someone and then feel heroic about it lol
However, most males today in college environments are just...crass in their ways